Most guys who go out to meet girls act like they don’t know what they’re doing. They look close to drooling, telling a woman she’s pretty and hot. They also ask lame questions that communicate lack of confidence and experience with social interaction.
Whether these tactics work for you or not the first Dharamshala call girlsfew times you use them, you should keep using them. What you need to do is to stop using the tactics that don’t work.
Today, you’re going to learn some of the strategies that can turn your dating life around. If you incorporate these in your conversation, you can learn how to pick up girls much more effectively.
The two Techniques to pick up Girls
The first technique I’m going to discuss is called Reverse Gender Stereotypes.
Humor is a very strong aphrodisiac, and women know this. Use humor to counter any objections she may have against going out with you. A guy who can make a girl laugh can sleep with more girls in a week than an attractive man who cannot tell (or take) a joke. Reverse gender stereotypes are funny statements you use to make women react. For example, this involves using something that would normally apply to women alone and applying it to describe your mood, like when you say ‘I can’t have sex, I’m on my period’. Another example is when you call a girl cocky, in a playful manner. When a term or a statement normally applies to the opposite gender, it sounds funny. Even if you don’t have much humor in your normal speech, saying these things will make you seem funny.
Stereotypes are generally mean to the gender it is intended for. But when said in a way that shows how dumb the stereotype is, it becomes funny. Playing with stereotypes can also make you seem irreverent and unaffected by convention.
The next technique is often called labeling push backs. To better understand this, let’s dissect each component involved. A label is a term used to describe a person based on the main traits that person has. For instance, a girl who doesn’t meet your eye, doesn’t say much and continues to cower when around people can be called shy. A girl who flirts around but comes up with a million excuses when men try to ask her out is a tease. A girl who refuses to talk about sex is a prude. A girl who acts like a tomboy can be called a girl who’s too much like a younger ‘brother’ to ask out on a date.
If a label is used on someone who does not think she deserves it, a push back happens. The girl who was called out for being shy claims the label is unfair and proceeds to show that she’s not shy. She is all fired up to prove you wrong. The same thing happens to the tease, the prude and the tomboy. When a girl starts acting up to prove you wrong or to impress you, you are one step closer to manipulating the conversation to your advantage. These anti-social labels give girls things to push back against.